Eli turned 8 months old with an ear infection! I'll write another post about braving a trip to Fayetteville in the snow to get to the doctor's office, but wanted to write down a few things about how Eli is doing as an 8-month-old.

The problem with trying to say how he's progressing with things, what kind of demeanor he has, etc., is that he's been ill for so long that I don't know what is his demeanor and what is just not feeling well. I think that the ear infection he has now is the same one he had in the middle of December and the antibiotic didn't resolve it completely. He's been pulling at his hair around his ear for awhile, but since he didn't have a fever I thought it was just him exploring the feel of his hair. He's been cranky, but Eli has never NOT been cranky. My sister brought her twins over last weekend and I was shocked at how happy they were. Eli is not, in general, a happy baby. He has moments of happiness, but he cries a lot more than smiles. Again though, he's been sick for so long I don't know if that's really his demeanor.
I am hoping and praying that this next round of antibiotics truly knocks the infection out and his immune system can finally recover from all of this. While at the doctor Eli got weighed. He was at 14 lb. 14 oz., which is only 2 ounces more than at 6 months. This has to be because of the illnesses, between the vomiting and not feeling well enough to eat. He's such a tiny baby, and such a snuggler! It's so nice to hold him tight and soothe his cries. He likes to be held with his head on my shoulder and will snuggle into my neck, clinging to me as tightly as possible.

He does seem to be sleeping better now. He takes 2 one-hour naps during the day and sleeps about 12 to 14 hours at night, waking up once or twice to eat. I think once he's feeling better it will be easy to get him sleeping through the night. Two ladies at church told me he was going to be a 'hip baby,' meaning that he'll be on my hip until he's 4 years old. I don't know about that, but he definitely doesn't like to be left alone or put down. Again, once he's feeling better I'm going to have to try teaching him to contentedly play by himself.
Christian's sister told me a story about how she was sitting in her daughter's room with Eli on her lap contentedly. She put him on the floor to play next to her and he started crying. Then she put him on her lap and he stopped. She experimented and opened her lap up so that his bottom was actually on the floor, but still surrounded by her. He immediately started crying again.
He's also learning to use his extremities with a little more control. Good for him to learn, but its context is usually while we're trying to feed him. If he's not in the mood for food, he bats our hand away. On the upside, he has started eating a few vegetables now. Mainly squash, but it's an improvement. He still loves cereal, but doesn't mind it mixed with other things now. He loves finger foods and already knows the difference between baby finger foods and our finger foods. He loves getting to eat bits of our food. And don't try to drink a cup of tea around him. He'll have it pulled towards him in no time and will gulp it down, leaving you with nothing left in your cup but bits of baby food.
Silas still makes him laugh, even when it's mixed with crying. I had him sitting in the chair today and before I knew it, he had pushed himself up on his feet, standing against the back of the chair looking at what Silas was doing. No crawling yet, but he does often push up on all fours.
He is such a momma's boy right now, and I would take Eli and all the crying and lack of sleep in the world over most problems other people have in their lives. I would rather want to pull my hair out in the middle of the night because he's crying again than pull my hair out because of any number of other issues that I could be having. It's a blessing and a joy to be the one that solves all his problems and make everything right for him. One day he'll be grown and I won't be able to solve all his problems for him. I'll have to sit back and watch him struggle and know that I can't make it all go away. That, I think, will be much harder than the sleepless nights and constant cries that I'm going through right now. So I'm going to choose to be thankful for the hard task of raising my little baby boy. I'm going to choose to have a cheerful heart about my baby bear and all his growlings.
So excuse me while I go feed my crying baby.